Monday, October 22, 2018


A Day with the Leaders
(Journey of an Entrepreneur)

WeConnect in Association with Westford University College and ADAM Global





So, I am really excited to write about the event I attended recently IT WAS SUCH A VALUEABLE LEARNING EXPERIENCE!

This event was held by Westford University College in collaboration with ADAM Global. Westford University is an educational institute based in UAE with offices and learning centers in Sharjah, Ras Al Khaimah, Dubai and Abu Dhabi as well as an established presence in India, Lebanon and Sri Lanka.

I was invited to the First Weconnect event held by Westford University Sharjah and ADAM Global as a Blogger since my Genre of writing is Entrepreneurship, Personal Growth and Motivation (which was quite relevant). Frankly, speaking I wasn’t sure what to expect but, what I learnt at the end of the event was much more than I thought. It was so relevant for everyone whether you were a student or an aspiring blogger.

Even before I start writing about the event I would suggest by saying that we really need to encourage students to be a part of such Events and Seminars where successful leaders and entrepreneurs come together to share with students their journey towards achieving their goals (Which is definitely a bumpy ride for lots of entrepreneurs but, since it is their passion that drives them everything becomes blur for them other than their end goals).

So, this word ENTREPRENEUR is so familiar but, what is it? Why are Entrepreneurs thought to be so fearless and focused as compared to other people?
An Entrepreneur is a person who doesn’t wait for resources, courage and foundations to be built but, they built it on their own. They are fearless, risk takers, organized, problem solvers and most importantly before they come up with an idea they research about the needs of the people in the market. They find a gap in the market (in marketing terms) which needs to be filled with an efficient and effective idea.

Let me share a picture of an Entrepreneur who has recently inspired me on another level!


Our Entrepreneur and Guest of the event, Mr. Ben Samuel (CEO AND FOUNDER OF FIT ON CLICK).

FitOnClick.Com: A discovery platform that brings all the fitness, wellness, and sports facilities under one platform to simplify your search for finding the perfect fitness facility for your fitness journey. Whether it’s looking for the right gym, wanting to put yourself to test at a kickboxing class, yoga for flexibility or CrossFit for solid functional training, Fit On Click gives you an awesome mix of all these and more.

Such a focused man (TBH, I have read a lot about courageous people but, another quality of his that was WOW was his humble tone).
So what is this Initiative about?

Weconnect is an Initiative taken by Westford University College and ADAM Global to bring together business leaders and Entrepreneurs who can share with the students pursuing bachelor’s degree in business management on  how their will power drove them to make a difference in their lives and whether anyone encouraged them or not they followed their passion and talent.


I would like to thank Westford University College and ADAM Global for giving a platform to these inspiring figures who have first-hand experience in going out to accomplish their dreams and aims.

It not a cake walk it takes up a lot of courage, sacrifice and focus (most of the people who have made a difference had to sacrifice their sleep and routine to get to where they are today) so before you start this journey you should know you will have to give up a lot to get what you dream of getting.

Our Guest Mr. Ben Samuel (CEO and FOUNDER OF FIT ON CLICK) and Our Chief Guest Mr. Cornel Fourie, (HEAD OF HR AT THE DUBAI ISLAMIC BANK).
Not a moment passed where I wasn’t inspired and after talking to a couple of students I felt they could relate to my experience of feeling so motivated to make that difference in my society by helping one another to passionately follow their dreams.

The event started with Mr. Ben’s speech. He mentioned a number of positive traits one needs to build to be able to become successful but, the three traits that make you lose your passion or rather make you lose opportunities were
1)     FEAR
2)     OBSTACLES
3)     LACK OF CONFIDENCE

And as I listened to him I could remember so many people who gave up their dreams because of these three elements. So this was clear in my mind that I need to overcome all these three in order to become a successful blogger.

Mr. Ben’s success story of how he started his business after winning a lucky draw when he hardly had means to provide for himself also indicated how we always say “ I wont win this, I am so unlucky” I understood that most of our shortcomings are there because of our own mentality. “ I am not good enough, I cant do it, but I don’t have money” all these phrases that we tell ourselves become a part of our mindset and we keep pushing ourselves down whereas, other people put aside this negativity and keep telling themselves “I CAN AND I WILL DO IT” nothing stops them.



Our Chief Guest Mr. Cornel Fourie (HEAD OF HR AT DUBAI ISLAMIC BANK) took over and had us all surprised due to his words. Since he is the HR Head he guided all of us regarding what do employers see in fresh graduate and how can you get ready to impress your interviewer and win the job. He started with quoting how his inspiration were Nelson Mandela and Mahatma Gandhi (who were great leaders of their times). 

He also shared how DIB and FIT ON CLICK have come together to celebrate sports through different tournaments that has helped DIB Employees to be consistent in staying active, losing weight and has also brought families together.

He further enlightened us on how HARDWORK has got him here. Sounds so simple right? Hardwork well yeah that’s the way but, is hardwork the only way to become successful
He further simplified hardwork

H:  HUMBLENESS
A:  ASPIRATION (ITS WHAT YOU WANT TO DO)
R:  RESILIENCE (keep going) AND REWARD
D:  DREAMING (If you stop dreaming you stop living, but be realistic        
about your dreams)

W:  WISDOM (be wise and simple)
O:   OPPORTUNITY (Don’t underestimate yourself and take measured risks)
R:   RESPECT (Don’t lose the values that your parents have taught you, love and respect everyone)
K:   KNOWLEDGE (read, read and read to gain knowledge)

He emphasized most on reading as much as possible, watch news and read newspaper especially for our generation since we have lost connection with reading about the world news unlike our older generations.


Then the Live Questions started, students pursuing bachelor’s degree in business management asked some interesting questions from our Guests.
























  
 1)   How to be successful as an Entrepreneur/ Banker?
BE TRUTHFUL, TRANSPARENT AND HUMBLE

2)     Challenges Businesses face in the UAE?
COMPANIES NEED TO CHANGE THEIR STRATEGY AS PER THE CHANGING TRENDS OF THE MARKET SINCE UAE IS A LAND OF OPPORUNITIES YOU LEARN A LOT. YOU CAN CHANGE AS PER THE FEEDBACK OF YOUR CLIENTS.

3)     How has living in big cities helped you?
YOU INTERACT WITH PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS AND MINDSETS. MR. BEN SHARED HOW HE CHANGED FROM BEING A SHY INTROVERT TO A CONFIDENT EXTROVERT.

4)     Are you an Optimist/ Pessimist?
BOTH OUR GUESTS SAID THEY ARE OPTIMISTS AND MR. CORNEL ADDED THAT HE IS A DREAMER AS WELL (GOT A ROUND OF APPLAUSE, SINCE WE WERE ALL AMUSED BY HIS THINKING)

5)     Growth of Sports retail Shops in this era of social media?
MR. BEN SHARED HOW HE BROWSES ONLINE FOR PRODUCTS BUT, BUYS THEM FROM THE PHYSICAL RETAIL STORES. ITS ALL ABOUT HOW DO SPORTS BRANDS CHANGE THEIR MARKETING STRATEGY FOR THE ONLINE AND OFFLINE CLIENTS.

6)     How have people become more aware about fitness especially in the corporate world?
MR. BEN ADDED, HOW THE UAE GOVERNMENT HAS SUPPORTED THEM THROUGH DIFFERENT SPORTS EVENT (30 DAY CHALLENGES AND FITNESS CHALLENGES) TO MAKE PEOPLE AWARE OF THE EVENTS. THIS HAS HELPED FITONCLICK TO MOVE FROM 3 CORPORATE COMPANIES TO 100+ COMPANIES TODAY.

7)     What do employers want in fresh graduates?
MR. CORNEL SHARED, GOOD CV, CONFIDENCE, GENERAL KNOWLEDGE AND HAVING THAT “X-FACTOR” THAT SETS YOU APART FROM ONE ANOTHER. HAVING A POINT OF VIEW SUPPORTED WITH FACTS.

8)     Why should students start their career with internships?
TO HAVE A FIRST-HAND LEARNING EXPERIENCE AND GAIN CONFIDENCE.

9)     How to build a Network?
BECOME A PART OF MEETUPS (NETWORKING MEETINGS) AND BE ACTIVE ON LINKEDIN

10)  Which Industry to join as fresher?
MR. BEN ANSWERED THAT THERES NO PARTICULAR INDUSTRY FIND YOUR PASSION AND TALENT COMBINE BOTH OF THEM AND IF IT MATCHES WITH YOUR QUALIFICATIONS THEN GO AHEAD OTHERWISE START WITH INTERNSHIPS BEFORE APPLYING FOR A FULL TIME JOB AND SINCE ITS YOUR CAREER DO WHAT YOU LIKE DON’T FOLLOW SOMEONE BLINDLY.

11)    Story behind why did Mr. Ben Samuel start FitOn Click?
HE WAS LOOKING FOR GYMS CLOSE TO HIS PLACE ONLINE BUT, DIDN’T FIND ONE AND PAID FOR A GYM THAT WAS FAR AWAY LATER, HE GOT TO KNOW HE HAD TWO GYMS CLOSE TO HIS PLACE BUT, THEY DIDN’T HAVE ENOUGH FINANCES TO MARKET ONLINE. THAT IS WHERE THE NEED AROSE AND FITONCLICK STARTED. A PLATFORM FOR THE GYMS TO CREATE AWARENESS AND MARKET THEMSELVES.

Personal time with the guests (Shared why I started blogging) although we sat with them for 30 minutes while it was the refreshment break. Had a good chat with Mr. Cornel and Mr. Ben.

After the successful event I got a chance to interview the Guests (OMG MY FIRST EVER INTERVIEW IT WAS SO INTERESTING) I spoke to them personally about their suggestions to the youngsters.
The questions I asked them were the most asked questions by all of you.
1)     How to pursue your dreams when most of the employers say “you don’t have experience, we cant hire you”.

“It is the reality so you need to start with interning at firms that belong to your industry of interest. A lot of people think if my first job doesn’t help me accomplish my goal in so and so number of months then I will quit it. That is not the way you need to work for sometime before you decide whether it will be beneficial in the long run or not to achieve your goals” said Mr. Cornel (THE HR HEAD OF DIB).

2)     The new generation is slowly rejecting the idea of 9-5 job culture by building startups what traits do they need to build along with the startups?
“DO IT IF YOU WANT TO, If you want to build a startup do it with passion, hardwork, humbleness and focus. I did it and you all can do it, you are the young generation theres nothing that can stop you other than your own will power” Said by, Mr. Ben.

3)     What if your dream isn’t giving you enough money for a period of time how do you know whether you are on the right path or not and until how long should you continue to follow it?

“Don’t measure success by the amount of money or the weight of your wallet. Success is what makes you happy and keeps you going, follow your heart and pursue what you are good at whether someone approves of it or not. Take opportunities as they come”. Answered Mr. Cornel.


OVERALL IT WAS A GREAT EXPERIENCE, I learnt a lot from the two experienced and humble leaders.

I understood the importance of leading from behind (quoted by Mr. Cornel). Servant Leadership where, you lead from behind and let your people move ahead this way you become their support and voice. This builds faith and trust in the leader which takes the business towards growth and success.

My Definition of success completely changed that day. Success is not the measurement of how much money you have it is how many people have you helped in your life to move ahead. It is a team work not an individual’s growth.

WOW! IT IS THEIR MINDSET THAT SETS THEM APART FROM SO MANY PEOPLE. It was a great event.

A special thanks to WESTFORD UNIVERSITY COLLEGE FOR INVITING ME OVER. All in all a well-organized event, respectful and supportive staff and the student volunteers did a great job as well. An example of great team work and focus.

Let me conclude with the message from the Executive Director of Westford University College, Mr. Hanil Das: “We surely had a perfect start to an exciting initiative. Our guests Ben and Cornel have done a fabulous job to bridge the industry-academia gaps to inspire our students. This platform was created with a vision to prepare our students to face the challenges out there in the business world. Our students have enjoyed the journey organizing this event and are looking forward to many more to come. We thank and congratulate all stakeholders involved in making this event a grand success”.


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Sunday, October 21, 2018

BUILD A PRODUCT (HALLOWEEN THEME)


HERIOT WATT UNIVERSITY DUBAI


My day started with visiting my University where I did my bachelors from. Heriot watt University Dubai. It always makes me feel happy and excited whenever I get to visit my Uni. I have some fond memories with this name “Heriot watt University Dubai”.

But, this time I was even more excited since one of my favorite Professor Miss. Marlene Muller had invited me as a blogger to blog about her third-year students. She has been one of the reasons why I have always loved HWUDC (Heriot watt University Dubai Campus) and keep going back to the campus (Most of my friends and I visit the Uni once in a while to greet the professors and faculty).

The idea behind the activity that particular morning was that Miss. Marlene would provide her students with resources to build a product for the upcoming Halloween but, they were given a budget of 800 dirhams to be able to purchase those products. And the most interesting part was after the students were done showcasing their products they needed to take a picture, upload it on Instagram with the hashtag #HWDubai all thanks to our creative professor. We had yarns, papers, scissors, glue, googly eyes, color pencils, markers and a couple of more resources. There were around 10-11 groups of 4-5 people in each group.



These mind sound like basic resources but, what the students created out of it was WOW! Some of the ideas were so useful and amazing. YOU CAN GO AND CHECK ON THE HASHTAG, you will be amazed. That’s what I learnt as well to not think that we need more resources to produce magic.
ITS YOUR IMAGINATION THAT CREATES MAGIC OUT OF NOTHING!

The purpose of this activity was to create awareness among the students as to how will they work with a budget while they purchased the products that would help them make a fancy and unusual product within 1 hour.

The first hour was for planning, then the leaders of each group had to stand in the queue to get the products and write about the products that they needed if later they changed or added a product they had to stand again in the long queue as well as get them replaced by other resources. THIS MADE ME REMEMBER OPPORTUNITY COST.

 The second half was how would the team of 4-5 build a product within a limited time, resources, no internet so they had to be as creative as possible, as unusual and their product needed to be useful as well.



 Students made Paper Lanterns, Spider webs, Spooky bookmarks, Wall hangings, pumpkin plates and much more. My personal favorite were the paper lanterns and Spooky bookmarks (Got some of them home and have been using them ever since then)



It is always great to be a part of activities where you learn so much. I mean there was a time when I was also in third year doing the same course as them. But, it was altogether different this time cause I was doing the exact opposite of what I did the last time. Needed to judge and decide who was the best team (Also got to keep some amazing creations of the students).

Altogether I got a chance to make use of my time Thursday Morning where I learnt how to make use of the limited resources to create a product as per a particular theme.
The day ended with a group picture.



Thankyou to Heriot watt University for having me over.

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Wednesday, October 17, 2018


My Journey to get rid of Insomnia 

(Peaceful Sleeping Routine)


Atlast! This has been one of the least talked about yet the most common problem people have.
NO ITS NOT AN ABNORMALITY! It is a disorder that you develop but, can get rid of just the way I did.

Insomnia has become a part of those taboo topics that people find difficulty in talking about that’s why we don’t get to know how so many of us fight insomnia on daily basis and lose the battle every night.



I grew up always sleeping on time getting my 8-9 hours of sleep since the time I was a child. I loved my sleep more than anything I am sure everyone out there agrees. We all love to stay in that cozy bed wrapped up in our blankets and just enjoying how you don’t need to get out of the bed and you can just relax.  
ITS JUST AMAZING (HAHA that’s the way I express sleeping)

So what is this Disorder then? Which is developed over a period of time and you are certainly not born with it? (I AM NOT A MEDICAL DOCTOR THIS IS JUST WHAT I WENT THROUGH)
When I put it into words “ There is something in the brain like some substance that is not being produced the way it should be something like a glitch in the brain that leaves us up all night, or gives us sleep in intervals, something that is not always attached to our habits and attitudes”. 

I was never an insomniac and when I used to hear adults talk about it I would feel genuine pity towards them. It is not something as simple as it sounds. It messes up your head. You wake up tired and exhausted (I mean, whats worse than that).

Sleeping is the best therapy (LITERALLY)

So what are the causes of it. Insomnia is triggered due to stress, depression, emotional and psychological causes that could also be due to anger,any kind of trauma, worry, grief and in my case also due to my migraine. Whenever I would have migraine for days I would end up staying up all night. It got worse after I suddenly changed my routine from sleeping at 10pm to sleeping at 2am due to my unhealthy habit of wasting time on my mobile.

So to add, migraines and sudden change of routine could also be the reason why you stay up all night.
My brain just wont stop like I would keep thinking about unimportant stuff. Make up situations and wake up with more stress in the morning (LITERALLY, AN EMPTY BRAIN IS A DEVIL’S WORKSHOP). I am sure we all do this.

Staring at the roof and thinking about completely random stuff. In my case initially it wasn’t that boring since my roof has those shining green stars which I got sick and tired of counting (LOL). I would imagine stuff that would never happen and get stressed over how my life is becoming pointless and meaningless and even in the mornings I would wake up with the same arid thoughts. I would get into bed at 11pm and stay awake until 3am then somehow manage to sleep out of exhaustion and wake up at 5am again and this kept on becoming worse until I had to bring about a change in my routine.


   1) So I will Discuss how I developed insomnia
2)       How did I react and move towards my journey to get rid of it?
3)       Did I take any medication (Homeopathic/ Allopathic)?
4)       How do I take control of my day when I have not slept properly?
5)       My Routine versus then and now

I had stopped exercising due to my overblown routine. Although I would be tired but, still would not be able to sleep. That’s when I had to go back to my old routine of investing time in exercising and finding time for my hobbies as well. The reason why I keep repeating how important is it to find time for yourself is because you feel yourself when you do something that you enjoy.

          Exercise and Meditating
        Enjoying your hobbies and making time for them even if its only over the weekend
So since I accepted it, I put myself first and my lazy habits aside. I would spend a little time in painting, writing ,baking or cooking something with my family. Next I would get in bed on time. I would block my mind from thinking anything at all. THE THINKING AND PLANNING IS TO BE DONE IN DAYLIGHT NOT AT NIGHT.

So instead of going for any medication (Since people suggested homeopathic medicines) I took the natural way out my making small changes in my routine. Just an alarm for all; I have still not completely gotten rid of it. But, since the time I exercise and meditate a couple of hours before going to bed I have started sleeping more than I usually would.
I avoid taking caffeine atleast two hours before my bed time. I wear comfy nightsuits and don’t tie my hair while going to bed. I am in my most comfy situation when I get into bed and before sleeping I encourage myself on all the accomplishments I have made.

It made sound vague but, trust me I know of people who have gone through long courses of medication and that has done zero for them. Be it going to therapy centers or whatever. Although to mention, getting full body massage is one of the most underrated therapy yet it’s the BEST!

All these changes that I brought in my routine weren’t brought in a day. Prolly, over a month’s time or more.
So give yourself time.

And stop telling yourself that you are sick

JUST LIKE ME, YOU CAN ALSO COME OUT OF IT THROUGH YOUR WILL POWER

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