24 Goals to Achieve in your
Twenties
(My Birthday Special)
What a
beautiful morning not only because its my 24th Birthday Morning but,
since the time I have started blogging I am trying to become more thankful for
whatever I have and for things that I don’t have (especially if I thought they
were good for me but, they weren’t).As soon as
you enter your twenties, everything completely changes.
From your mindset to
your goals, from how everyone once saw you as a child but, now you have
suddenly become an adult. Since all of us go through this uncertain age. We can
all say this from experience that this age makes you go through WAY TOO MANY
experiences.
I mean when
I shared this topic with my parents and a few other acquaintances they all got
so charged up and gave me a few advices for me to write them down and share it
with you all.
I could see
a lot of similarities between the advices everyone gave since there are certain
aspects of life that we need to hold onto continuously to be able to succeed. I
also want you to ask yourself.
WHAT IS SUCCESS FOR YOU?
Is success related to
financial freedom, happiness, having love, power or what exactly is it?
That is
my 24th Goal (MY EVERYDAY REMINDER).
One more
important thing I notice in people around me is the attitude they have towards
writing their goals in a diary. I do it, and its not weird AT ALL it shows how
committed you are towards your goals. How seriously do you take your goals.
If you can
do well without it that’s good too but, if you keep a record of it you can keep
going back to it and seeing how many of those goals have been accomplished.
1)Start with Writing your goals down
(In a diary) It could be a weekly diary or if you prefer a monthly one as well. DON’T
FORGET TO KEEP GOING BACK TO REMIND YOURSELF.
2) Change your mindset towards being responsible
(Most Important)Thinking of your new job or the final year of your degree, don’t think of
it as a burden rather it is a milestone that takes you closer to your goals.
3) Get Organized (I say almost in every
blog)Set your
routine in a way that you don’t have to panic everyday about what needs to be
done next.
4) Don’t Ever Compare yourself with
othersPlease DON’T
do this. Stop envying over what others have and you don’t. Don’t think about
how your friends jobs and you don’t. You need to create your own path. YOU ARE
UNIQUE!
5) Share your thoughts with close ones
(It is always helpful for you and for others as well)Not a necessity
but, sharing with a close friend or family member is always a good idea. It
gives you that encouragement and boost that you need and I am sure they also
get charged up to do something unusual.
6) Understand that its complete ok to
not be like others and have different preferences/perceptions YOU ARE YOU, you are suppose to have a different mindset that sets you
apart from others. Its not important for you to nod your head in agreement with
others all the time. If you don’t want to follow a certain career path like others that move and change it. YOU ARE NOT A TREE SO MOVE AND DO WHAT YOU FEEL
IS RIGHT.
7) Don’t wait for appreciation and
approval from others Omg! Please
understand this, you don’t need people to tell you what you are doing is right.
“ But there is no scope in the market for what you are studying” *rolls eyes*
DO YOUR RESEARCH before you choose a career path and go ahead with it. YOU
DON’T NEED RANDOM EXPERTS giving you advices.
8) Smile Everyday We all go
through these immense mood swings where you just want to be left alone at
times. Even when the other person says the smallest thing you become
aggressive, emotional or upset. Try to control your emotions by smiling and
BEING THANKFUL(always helps me).
9) Workout and Meditate The amount
of peace it gives you is wow!
10)Become a part of a project Give charity or become a part of an NGO or anything else that
helps your community. Trust me this does wonders to your will power and
confidence.
11)Reward yourself for your accomplishments SHOPPING!
12) Give yourself to take baby stepsBE PATIENT! All the great things take time. Let it take its
course of time.
13) TravelIf you have the means to if not atleast go for road trips or
go to the beach or anywhere that gives you peace.
14) If required find yourself a mentor (It could also be
someone who motivates you)
15) Search for ways to improveLearn from others (BUT YOU DON’T NEED TO COPY THEM), search
online or look at how you used to feel about your goals a few years back to how
you see them today. YOU WILL LEARN FROM YOUR OWNSELF.
16) DON’T LOSE HOPE! STICK IN THERE, YOU ARE ALMOST THERE
17) Interact with people (Learned and Experienced
Individuals)
18) Never Stop learning
(Ask questions, research and experiment)
19) Indulge into positive and self-building activities (COULD
BE READING A BOOK OR COOKING or whatever you like)
20) Spend quality time with your familyMakes you feel that they will always be with you no matter
what (SO MOTIVATING)
21) Stick to your hobbies (HOBBIES ARE IMPORTANT)
22) Keep yourself Motivated to move forward (Do every task
with passion and Focus)
23) Always be thankful towards people who have taught you any
lesson about life
24) Set your priorities (Referring back to point 3)
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You need to keep asking yourself questions everyday regarding your goals in life.
And before
you think you aren’t doing well or you already want to give up talk to your
close ones, you will realize that there are people who are fighting bigger
battles than you but, their will power is so strong that they don’t give up.NEVER GIVING UP IS THE KEY!
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